Lair Derriere events are painstakingly original and daringly unique. We admire people of all genders, sexual orientations, and kinks, while recognizing not everyone is a fit for every event. All participants must respect our FemDom values and protocols.

Nightshade returns on Saturday, November 21st, 2026
(Not affiliated with the new bar and music space in South Slope. Our FemDom Speakeasy remains the original Nightshade in Asheville!)
Step inside, shed the ordinary, embrace the night. Nightshade is an invitation-only, limited-capacity pop-up D/s social and play party, held in Asheville, NC. All guests must present as either FemDom or submissive. No male Doms. No male domination.

February 12-14th, 2027 - Lake Hartwell, SC
Affinity is an invitation-only weekend in a D/s world – for lifestyle FemDoms willing to challenge themselves and submissive males ready to dive deep.

Pitch a fit. Throw a tantrum. Break fragile things. You’ll feel better after. Promise.
Bits & Pieces is a night of naked aggression and FemDom fury in a cool, safe space.
Bits & Pieces pops up when the pressure peaks. Learn more.

Batty Fang is an outrageous, outdoor CFnm event — where FemDoms are wild and free, and submissives are naked and afraid! The single-day event features a madly inventive array of kinky games, predicaments, and FemDom-fueled BDSM fun.