lair derrière CURATED EVENTS
AFFINITY: THE FEMDOM IMMERSION
Next Affinity: February 27 - March 1st, 2026 in Atlanta, Georgia
Affinity is an invitation-only weekend in a D/s world – for lifestyle FemDoms willing to challenge themselves and submissive males ready to dive deep.
BATTY FANG: THE FEMDOM FIASCO
Batty Fang is an outrageous, outdoor CFnm event — where FemDoms are wild and free, and submissives are naked and afraid! The single-day event features a madly inventive array of kinky games, predicaments, and FemDom-fueled BDSM fun.
BITS & PIECES: THE FEMDOM BASH
Pitch a fit. Throw a tantrum. Break fragile things. You’ll feel better after. Promise.
Bits & Pieces is a night of naked aggression and FemDom fury in a cool, safe space.
Bits & Pieces pops up when the pressure peaks. Learn more.
NIGHTSHADE: THE FEMDOM SPEAKEASY
Nightshade returns Spring 2026
(Not affiliated with the new bar and music space in South Slope. Our FemDom Speakeasy remains the original Nightshade in Asheville!)
Step inside, shed the ordinary, embrace the night. Nightshade is an invitation-only, limited-capacity pop-up D/s social and play party, held in Asheville, NC. All guests must present as either FemDom or submissive. No male Doms. No male domination.