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AFFINITY

Affinity Returns November 14-16, 2025!!!

How to be Considered for AffinityAttendee Testimonials

AFFINITY: THE FEMDOM IMMERSION

Affinity: Overview

Affinity is our lifestyle D/s event, where adventurous souls are intentionally immersed in sustained power exchange, unwavering servitude, creative play, and compassionate care. Invitation-only and CFnm. Women rule, men serve – all weekend long.


This is a unique opportunity to fully occupy a D/s world - with high standards for FemDoms and strict protocols for subs. If you are looking for a couples getaway, swingers weekend, sex party, or BDSM workshop, this is NOT the weekend for you. 


All guests must participate as either FemDom  (Female) or submissive (male). 

Affinity: Experience

Affinity delivers a full weekend of brazen FemDom empowerment and male subjugation, with: 

  • Multiple rooms w/dungeon furniture and implements   
  • Two evening play parties
  • Silly games and wild experiments
  • Special-protocol dinner banquet
  • Custom fantasy fulfillment
  • Ceremonies and rituals 
  • Personalized service
  • Down-time and doting
  • Community, support, nourishment

Affinity: Access

You must respond to our event listing on FetLife to be considered for an invitation. All-inclusive pricing is $850 for submissives and ranges from $600-$900 for Mistresses (for various room and bed configurations while supply lasts). Admission includes everything you need, all weekend: food, beverages, accommodations, and full participation in the program, games, and parties.


We do not offer couple privileges or shared admissions. Couples of either gender are only considered if they meet certain qualifying criteria and adhere to all FemDom/male sub protocols.  


Space is limited and we do sell out!!! If you receive an invitation, be prepared to act fast. 

Affinity: How to be considered

Take a minute to get a better sense of what is involved in our vetting/selection process by checking out our FAQ's.


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