Affinity is a meticulously curated, invitation-only, CFnm FemDom D/s Weekend – intimate, intense, and deeply personal.
18 adventurous souls are intentionally immersed in sustained power exchange, unwavering servitude, creative play, and compassionate care. Women rule, men serve, all weekend.
This is a unique opportunity to live in a D/s world - with high standards for FemDoms and strict protocols for submissives. If you are looking for a couples getaway, swingers weekend, sex party, or BDSM workshop, this is NOT the weekend for you. All guests must participate as either FemDom (Female) or submissive (male).
Affinity is created for:
Affinity delivers a full weekend of brazen, dramatic FemDom empowerment and safe, yet strict male subjugation, with:
Affinity is highly selective. To protect the integrity of the experience and curate the strongest possible combination of guests, we employ a meticulous, multi-step vetting process.
All consideration begins through the official FetLife event listing. Applicants must have their own FetLife profile, and all communication regarding consideration and invitations takes place through FetLife messages.
Please review our FAQ's to fully understand what is involved in our vetting and selection process.
All-inclusive admission pricing varies for FemDoms based on room selection, accommodations, and availability. Admission for submissives is a single flat rate. Guests should be prepared to spend $1000+ for admission and preparation (wardrobe, gear, accessories) – plus their own travel costs to and from.
We do not offer couple privileges or shared admissions. Couples of either gender are only considered if they meet certain qualifying criteria and adhere to all FemDom/male sub protocols.
Space is limited and Affinity always sells out. If you receive an invitation, a $100 nonrefundable deposit is required within one week to secure your place.