AFFINITY TESTIMONIALS

I was worried it might be very strict and “dark” but there was so much joy and laughter, while still being intense and full of very real power exchange. The perfect mix. It seemed like everyone instantly became comfortable and excited to explore with each other.  I was thrilled to expand my interests with new experiences in kinks I’d never tried before. It was everything I’d hoped for and more. 

sub 012

I expected there to be a kind and welcoming community of Dommes and subs but the selection of people really exceeded my expectations. The amount of activities we had during the weekend was also amazing. I learned that I can be a Domme for extended periods of time. I’ve also gotten more comfortable with pick up play with really new people.

Banx

Being in a home that had consenting, willing submissives is a dream come true. The atmosphere was so inviting and unique. With Affinity you have the space to play, and the mindset of "this is normal" throughout the whole experience. I look forward to the future ones that I am able to attend.  It is highly organized and worth every penny.

Nacole

I learned that I have soooo much to still learn about myself, and the best way to make progress along this path is to surround oneself with equally curious, committed souls. I enjoyed a heightened sense of community; exploring our edges while being witnessed by one another; all the trust, all the crafting, all the compassion, all the feels, all the yum, all the ouch, all the ooooh.  I also very much appreciated that time was scheduled in for check-ins and shares, as that felt integral to our going deep together and digesting it all together. 

sub 007

I was excited to be invited but also nervous. I was greeted with smiles and open arms. I met a lot of great people  that I will always consider friends. I will always remember my very first dance lesson. And also the freeing feeling of being so vulnerable being naked and in chastity in front of people I just met. I am a true submissive and would really love to be able to take my experience and what I have learned and come back again and grow and learn even more.

sub 021

Affinity is intense, immersive, challenging, and educating. My integrity as a top exceeded what I thought I was capable of. I loved how my fellow tops brought out my creative side in co-creating experiences/scenes.

Mae

The Affinity event was well organized, prepared, and professional. It has helped me overcome a few of my insecurities.

sub 016

I loved embracing myself as a sweet sadist. Just being surrounded by people who are true to themselves and their kinks, being accepted and appreciated, and learning. 

Juniper

I enjoyed the immersive experience of a weekend versus an evening play party. It was also fun to meet and play with new people. For me, Saturday afternoon/evening was an unforgettable day of almost nonstop scenes or demos with various mistresses. Wow.

sub 015

Each person’s style/personality came together to create unique scenes. Most valuable to me is how it strengthened the dynamic with my Mistress. It was a shared experience, we explored some things together, and it resulted in some really connecting and emotional conversations between us.

sub 019

To see people achieve a fantasy or overcome a fear, and the exuberance as they process it and grow.

sub 013

This weekend really opened my eyes to what style of dominant I am. It gave creative space to completely and totally fall into my dominant role and realize these shoes fit so well. I don't know where else I could have experienced that. 

EMJ

What stands out for me were the little details, the nuances throughout the weekend. The dinners were thoughtfully organized (the last dinner - wow), activities were also beautifully curated, the play space was perfectly appointed. I didn’t feel rushed even though I knew our time was limited.

L.

Being pretty new to this lifestyle yet being granted the trust to step into this space and be a part of something like this means a lot. This helped fulfill some fantasies and desires, helped me become more comfortable being involved in the kink community, and just helped to mesh and mold two of my realities into the one person I want to be. I am so appreciative of the time and energy expended making this possible – it was amazing. 

sub 006

I really appreciated the personal connections I made and the connective submission which was so much more meaningful. The warmth and love I felt in submission has been long missed and was so so so rewarding. I will remember my growth and my realizations of what I’ve been avoiding. 

sub 005

Having some of my deepest and longest-running fantasies fulfilled, while being immersed in a space where others get to do the same, was very powerful. Witnessing others getting to do the same and being in their joy was truly, truly special. I cannot express the gratitude I feel for being invited to participate in such a divine and powerful experience.

sub 022

It exceeded every expectation I had in every way. I will be forever grateful for the weekend that has been the seed for deep new connections. I will remember this experience with absolute pride, joy, and love.

Princess

I was able to execute so many of the plans I had made beforehand! Fulfilling my dual suspension fantasy and getting to watch all the other fantasy fulfillments. I loved the icebreaker activity and the extra time on Sunday. This group of subs was particularly great. I felt very connected to them and have a great desire to play together more in the future.

Sage

I learned that I can take on even more serious/severe roles during play and still have fun and be myself. I’m so grateful to the organizers for this opportunity. I will do everything in my power to come to the next one.

Visare Vixen

I felt a vulnerability that I haven't felt for a long time. Throughout the event with the help of everyone, I was able to embrace that feeling; it gave me peace of mind. It also made me more open in terms of expressing myself and my kinks to others.

sub 004

Games and sharing circles. Being waited on hand and foot. Waking up to subs bringing me coffee and going to sleep with subs bringing me water and chapstick and sometimes other treats. Play parties and scening. The bonding between the subs and Mistresses was incredible and beyond what I anticipated. 

Borden